in my early days of marriage I can consider it early because I am just 25 years old. Those days are considered critical stage of married life, more adjustment, more challenges in life at the age of twenty. I already have 2 kids an it really is challenging. I still don’t know who my neighbors are, because we are newly transferred in that place. After I deliver my first child we move n to another place, to live separately from my mother. We wanted to prove to them that we can face all the challenges that we can encounter in life, and face it. We separate not because I hate my mother but to prove to her that we couples can do it.

We wanted to stand on our own. But it was hard bring alone no relative nearby and no friends. No one help you in times of need. I used to tell my husband to have a cash advance loan on their company by that time he is working as a constructions worker and his salary is just enough. It was hard before, but now the loan can be made in the internet. I just wish they were early at that time, but even so, I can apply for the loans anytime.